minhag - Beracha on lighting yom tov candles : before or after?

There are two minhagim concerning the time the beracha should be said on lighting yom tov candles for a woman, before or after (like shabbos neros).

I've read arguments like these :

• before, because we don't receive yom tov with the beracha we can say it before the lighting


• after, to not differentiate with shabbos procedure

I would be glad to know a little more on the subject with sources and some poskim opinions